I have personal soundtracks for different phases of my life, and my new journey into fatherhood is no different. Our son Jiikwis is almost a year old now, and a few recent standout songs have really punctuated my time with him so far. He’s also inspired me to revisit some of my old favourites, which either hit closer to home or have taken on a whole new meaning. Being a parent really is the most profound experience I’ve ever had, and when I can’t put into words just how much it means to me, there’s usually a song that perfectly encapsulates what I’m feeling.
Below is a small handful of the songs about fatherhood (or that I interpret as such) that I’ve recently enjoyed. But I couldn’t find a decent link to my all-time favourite tune about the arrival of a child: Sturgill Simpson’s “Welcome to Earth (Pollywog)” from his outstanding 2016 album A Sailor’s Guide to Earth. At the moment, everything on YouTube seems to be bootleg video from concerts. If you don’t know it, I highly recommend getting the album, and in the meantime you can read about what it means to me in this post from shortly after our son was born:
We found out @sarah_g_rice was pregnant the same week @sturgillsimpson's phenomenal album A Sailor's Guide to Earth was released. It's essentially a love letter to his infant son. While we didn't know what we were having, the songs got me very excited about fatherhood. I listened to the album very regularly through the spring and summer, full of delight and wonder about the journey ahead of us. We got to see him play it all the way through live in Toronto in August, which made my love for this music become even greater. It dropped lower on the playlist, as most favoured albums do, but I knew I'd get right back into it once our child was born. Little did I know he'd come four weeks early under very difficult circumstances, resulting in days in intensive care for him and his mother. In those scary and stressful first days, I turned back to A Sailor's Guide to Earth to help me through those emotional quiet moments alone. The songs reassured and comforted me in a way music never has before. Mama and our son Jiikwis recovered, and were able to come home after six days in hospital. As soon as I could, I put the record on in our living room, and I held my son in my arms as "Welcome to Earth" surrounded us. It was a pretty special moment. Chi-miigwech #sturgillsimpson
What are your favourite songs about being a parent?